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2.04.2009

The love

A wise person once said "Love is a irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired".

Who can say more about it?


Well, even if this is the case at most of the time, the person you desire irresistibly may not have the same feeling for you. Surely, that person is not in love.


But does it make you not being in love?


That is the question that I am asking myself lately.


From an outside point of view, it might seem a little bit complicated and a little bit twist of words, like a poetic stuff.


Nevertheless, that is the case for me.


So far, my love life has been complicated. Sometimes I feel like I am dissatisfied with it, but I came to realize that I might have enjoy it.


Ok. Some of you may get the idea that I am kind of masochist, but this is not related to punishment or pain...


For some people, love is often associated with patronage… Kind of binding between two persons… Each person owns the other one and does not want to share with others.


But that is not the case for all types of loves. I know most of you does not agree with this.


Maybe, the answer is that love is being irrational when you know that reasoning ends at some point. From this perspective, all of the conflicts I have so far make sense.


See, I answered one of the most difficult questions of mankind just less than 250 words.

4.15.2007

Lovefool...

Nowadays, I mostly listen Lovefool from The Cardigans, which is one of the most joyful song about the suffer of the love. Perhaps, you heard it for almost every romantic movies. Right after I watched the documentary of Enron, I said I gotta find it somewhere and listen to it again anda again. Well, enjoy the lyrics:

Dear, I fear we're facing a problem
you love me no longer, I know
and maybe there is nothing
that I can do to make you do
Mama tells me I shouldn't bother
that I ought just stick to another man
a man that surely deserves me
but I think you do!

So I cry, and I pray and I beg

Love me love me
say that you love me
fool me fool me
go on and fool me
love me love me
pretend that you love me
leave me leave me
just say that you need me

So I cried, and I begged for you to
Love me love me
say that you love me
leave me leave me
just say that you need me
I can't care about anything but you

Lately I have desperately pondered,
spent my nights awake and I wonder
what I could have done in another way
to make you stay
Reason will not pledge a solution
I will end up lost in confusion
I don't care if you really care
as long as you don't go

So I cry, I pray and I beg

Love me love me
say that you love me
fool me fool me
go on and fool me
love me love me
pretend that you love me
leave me leave me
just say that you need me

So I cried, and I begged for you to
Love me love me
say that you love me
leave me leave me
just say that you need me
I can't care about anything but you

(anything but you)

Love me love me
say that you love me
fool me fool me
go on and fool me
Love me love me
I know that you need me
I can't care about anything but you