2.04.2009

The love

A wise person once said "Love is a irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired".

Who can say more about it?


Well, even if this is the case at most of the time, the person you desire irresistibly may not have the same feeling for you. Surely, that person is not in love.


But does it make you not being in love?


That is the question that I am asking myself lately.


From an outside point of view, it might seem a little bit complicated and a little bit twist of words, like a poetic stuff.


Nevertheless, that is the case for me.


So far, my love life has been complicated. Sometimes I feel like I am dissatisfied with it, but I came to realize that I might have enjoy it.


Ok. Some of you may get the idea that I am kind of masochist, but this is not related to punishment or pain...


For some people, love is often associated with patronage… Kind of binding between two persons… Each person owns the other one and does not want to share with others.


But that is not the case for all types of loves. I know most of you does not agree with this.


Maybe, the answer is that love is being irrational when you know that reasoning ends at some point. From this perspective, all of the conflicts I have so far make sense.


See, I answered one of the most difficult questions of mankind just less than 250 words.